GUIDES

How to Choose a Wedding Ring

Engagement and wedding rings

So you have the engagement ring of your dreams and now you’ve embarked on the journey of planning your big day! From finding the right location to saying yes to the dress, it can feel never ending. But thanks to our guide, finding a wedding ring that you’ll love forever is sure to be an easy task. Let’s take a look at how you can choose a ring that not only suits your personal style but also fits around your lifestyle.

Choosing a Shape

While a classic straight band is the most common choice for wedding rings, it may not be the right fit for everyone. The ideal ring shape often depends on the extravagance of your engagement ring or the overall look you envision for your ring set. If you'd like to learn more about ring anatomy and the technical terms used when talking about engagement and wedding rings, check out our ring anatomy guide. It’s also a great resource to help you decide how you want your engagement and wedding rings to sit together on your finger.

Tiara Wedding Rings

If you know that you want a wedding ring that’s just as dramatic (if not more) as your engagement ring, then consider opting for a tiara wedding ring. They're ideal if you want your wedding ring to complement and fit seamlessly around your engagement ring's gemstone, thanks to their varying levels of wishbone shaping. Plus, they're incredibly versatile as you can select gemstones that perfectly match your engagement ring. Our collection includes tiara wedding ring styles in a range of gemstones, from classic white diamonds and unique salt and pepper or champagne diamonds, to vibrant pink and teal sapphires!

Straight Wedding Rings

Now, although straight wedding bands are the most traditional choice, that doesn't mean they have to be simple. If you would like a straight wedding ring but don’t want to miss out on detail then you can opt for a more intricate design such as a patterned ring, a beaded ring or even a gemstone eternity ring. There are many choices when it comes to selecting a straight wedding ring and they can be as detailed and opulent as you wish! 


We also love simple court style wedding rings which are perfect for those who want to let their engagement ring do all the talking. Court wedding rings are a simple band, crafted from precious metals. They're the most traditional of all the wedding rings, making them perfect for those who want a more subdued and toned down look.

Shaped Wedding Rings

The last shape we’ll be looking at is the shaped wedding band. This style is almost in between tiara and straight wedding bands; they have a slight curve in the middle, meaning they gently outline your engagement rings' centre stone. The shaped wedding ring can be as simple or as intricate as you wish. They can hold detailed engravings or have gemstone inlays, or if you prefer the classic look, they can be made of a simple polished fine metal of your choosing.

To Gemstone or Not to Gemstone

Now you’ve decided on which shape you want to go for, it's time to start thinking about the finer details. For example, do you want your wedding ring to contain gemstones or engravings? Or maybe you’d like to opt for a simple polished band? Let's explore the different ways you can add a bit of extra detail to your wedding ring.

Choosing a Gemstone

If you’ve decided that you definitely do want a gemstone wedding band, there’s a few things you should take into consideration before standing firm on your gemstone choice. This is because you will most likely be wearing your wedding ring every day, and not every gemstone is right for everyday wear.


If you want a colourless (or white) stone then we always recommend choosing a diamond wedding ring as these gemstones are the hardest naturally occurring material in the world, so they're less likely to become scratched or damaged when you wear them often! You can also choose a moissanite ring if you don’t have the budget for diamonds as they have a very similar appearance and hardness level to diamonds. However, if a coloured stone is more your vibe then there are plenty of options that are perfect for regular wear. For example, sapphires, rubies and emeralds are all beautiful and sturdy. Take a look at our Jewellery School where you can find everything you need to know about all the different gemstones that we work with. 

Picking an Engraving/Pattern

If you’d prefer a patterned wedding ring then there are many options you can choose from. From Art Deco inspired designs to vintage and nature patterns, there’s a world of intricately patterned rings to choose from. You can even choose to have the pattern completely hidden to the world and have it on the inside of the band, making it a personal little detail that only you and your significant other know about!

Choosing the Perfect Metal

This is possibly one of the easier choices when it comes to selecting a wedding ring as you most likely already know what colour metal you prefer. However, there are still a few things to consider before making your choice. 


First, take a look at your engagement ring metal and figure out whether you want the metals to match exactly. This means knowing whether your ring is platinum or white gold, or what carat gold your yellow gold ring is as they all hold slightly different properties and shades. For example, platinum is a brighter white/silver than white gold, and 18 carat gold will be a much more vibrant yellow than 9 carat gold. Therefore, it's a good idea to know exactly what metal your engagement ring is before choosing a wedding ring. 


However, if you’re not too fussed about them matching perfectly then you can choose a different carat weight depending on budget or lifestyle choices. And remember, your engagement and wedding ring don’t actually have to match at all! If you'd like a stark contrast in colour then you can always select a wedding ring that’s a completely different metal type to your engagement ring, there’s no set rules and it's all about what works best for you! Take a look at our Jewellery School for more information on different types of precious metals.


If you’ve now gone through the process of searching for your dream wedding ring but still can’t find one that fits your vision perfectly, you can consider going for a bespoke wedding ring. This means you can work alongside a designated member of our design team to create a ring that truly speaks to you. All you have to do is reach out to us to begin your bespoke journey and to create a wedding ring that’s one of a kind. 

Bespoke Wedding Rings

Ever wondered what goes into creating a bespoke ring? Well we're here to guide you every step of the way. From choosing the perfect gemstones, to selecting the right design choices, our bespoke wedding ring service allows you to become the jewellery designer. 


Book an appointment with us today to start your journey and create a ring that's truly one of a kind. For some inspiration have a play around with our Design Your Own Engagement Ring tool!